Long road from disability to independence for man who prompted Fonterra to change district's milk tanker schedule

A pilot programme that allows Andrew Oliver, 35 - who has one of the rarest genetic conditions in the world - to live independently is a relief to his parents who have struggled against the national system for years.

The change since joining the programme, Enabling Good Lives, is hard to believe for his parents: dairy farmer Ken and his wife Deirdre, who's been Andrew's only caregiver all his life while raising their three other children.

Andrew has become a minor celebrity as the man who prompted Fonterra to change its entire Te Rapa district milk tanker schedule so he could go to bed on time, with First Up's story attracting massive attention since it aired last week.

He has Fryns-Aftimos syndrome, a genetic condition so rare it's thought only about seven or eight people have it.

For much of his life Andrew has required constant care, and Ken and Deidre have struggled constantly with the requirements placed on them by the bureaucracy involved in doing so.

"We fought a lot of battles in that regard because doors get opened for those things that are recognised," Ken says. "It's a very lonely world out there if you haven't got recognition for the person that needs assistance."

Long road to diagnosis

When he was born, Andrew's head and neck were so swollen with fluid that he lost half a kilo when the swelling went down the next day. His mental development stalled about age six, he suffers five types of epilepsy and has bone abnormalities and distinctive facial features, and malformed fingers and toes.

Deidre says Andrew's condition was initially misdiagnosed as when he was nine months old Langer Giedion Syndrome - another rare genetic disorder - and underwent multiple operations over the years.

"He'd have regular visits to the pediatrician. I said 'he really doesn't fit this,' I mean, not that it matters but it doesn't fit. So then at about 13 or 14 they decided he had Cranio Labio Facio syndrome type 3.

That diagnosis relates to the abnormality around Andrew's facial features and head shape but it still wasn't quite right as it also includes other disorders that can affect many parts of the body.

Auckland geneticist Dr Aftimos wrote down his findings about Andrew and posted it on the internet.

Andy Oliver. Source:

"He got a reply from a pediatrician in Belgium called Dr Frinz whose quite a well-known geneticist and he posted back that he had this boy in Holland whose name was Andrew and he sent a photo over of him. And I showed Andrew a photo of this other Andrew and I said 'who's this?' and he said 'oh that's me' because they looked so much alike," Deidre says.

The diagnosis doctors arrived at is Fryns-Aftimos syndrome. The only scientific papers on it are based on both Andrews, and Mr Oliver is the oldest person known to have it.

Struggle with the system

He's also the only one with Fryns-Aftimos in New Zealand, which has made things very difficult for Ken and Deidre.

"He just doesn't fit the boxes so in terms of growing up and getting assistance, he didn't get any," Deidre says.

"It's just got to ridiculous proportions now with things," Deidre says. "I rang ACC when he broke a bone in his foot and I got told by the agent 'well, I can't talk to you, I can only talk to him' and I was like 'well, here, talk to him, he'll tell you all about fire engines. He won't tell you anything about his broken foot.'

ACC refused to talk to Deirdre about Andrew's needs without his permission, so the family had to get Andrew to sign a form - even though he can barely write his full name.

"Andrew actually got called up for jury duty. We were going to let him go (laughs) and again we were really tempted to just take him and say 'you called him up'.

Deirdre now has welfare guardianship for Andrew, but it must be reviewed every three years at a cost of $2500 each time.

He takes a cocktail of drugs every day - some of which aren't subsidised because they're not on the general list.

The couple worried too that as they were getting older the need to prepare for Andy's future without them was crucial.

The Ministry of Health entitles the couple to four weeks of respite, care supplied to Andrew allowing them to take a break from full-time caring, but he needs an extra caregiver because of his high level of needs so Deidre can only claim half that. At age 65, they gave up claiming it.

"We're becoming more and more aware of the fact that we were getting older and it gets more and more difficult as you get older and we're sort of thinking - hang on, what's next for Andy. When we're gone, where to from here," Ken says.

Gaining independence

However, a new programme being trialled in Waikato, Enabling Good Lives, has been helping the family for three years to get to the point where Andrew can live independently.

For the past four months Andrew has been living in his own home on the couple's dairy farm.

"I never wanted him to go into residential care. I like the idea that he can help to choose his carers," Deidre says. "And he can tell them what he wants to do and they will take him within reason to go and do it.

Andrew Oliver rides his bike at home, provided to him by Fonterra staff from around the world. Source:

"He tells the carers what meals he wants and he helps to prepare them if he's in that sort of mood. He gets out and about, he goes to the library. He's going to start swimming again soon, he loves swimming. And goes out doing crazy things like ten-pin bowling and playing mini golf and going to the movies and things that other people do in their thirties.

"We're hoping he will share his home with other special needs people that want to go flatting basically ... he does his own shopping with his carer support."

Ken says they suddenly realised how much of their lives had been taken up with caring for Andrew.

"We don't begrudge it in one little bit ... he's made our lives special in a way, but now to be able to sort of set him free and we're sort of starting to realise that maybe we've been set free as well.

"You know, I want Deirdre to be a grandmother and to enjoy her grandchildren and that's been restricted in a way because we've always had to be caring for Andy. And he got to the stage that if there was a birthday party somewhere - if he didn't want to go, that meant we didn't go.

Enabling Good Lives coordinator Linda Brown says the programme gives those living with disabilities the choice to control how Ministry of Health funding for support services can be spent to meet their needs.

"He's come along leaps and bounds hugely, yeah, he's his own man now I would say," she says. "The programme is around people having real choice and control in their life and that really is the success of it. Everybody is different and what that looks like for everyone is different but having choice and control is the biggest impact for people. They have a real say in what they do...when they do it and how they do it."

Andy's funding is now used to help pay for carers to assist his aging parents in looking after him. While it only covers some of the cost for his round-the-clock care, his parents pay the rest of the cost themselves and his mother continues to look after him a couple of days a week.

The programme's success means it has reached capacity in just three years. Ken and Deidre are hopeful the government will establish it around the country.

"This is people living, and everybody has the right to life and the right to a good life," Ken says.

Indira Stewart 

Andrew Oliver rides his bike at home, provided to him by Fonterra staff from around the world. Source: